Liking for Successful Relationship by Motivational Speaker in Andhra Pradesh, Visakhapatnam, Vijayawada

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Liking is required for successful relationship. It is more important and more satisfying to genuinely like your partner than to be in love. In a long-term relationship, people may fall in and out of love. The kind and strength of emotion that each feels for the other will vary with the passing of time. But if the two people like and respect each other, the relationship can sustain indefinitely.

When one person stops liking or respecting the other person, for any reason, the relationships is usually over. Many couples fall in love and then break up and never speak to each other again because they never took the time to fall in like, to learn to genuinely like and respect the other person as an individual rather than just as a romantic partner.

Marriages and relationships may not work out, but if they were initially based on liking and respect, the two parties can still communicate and interact on an adult level without negative feelings that go with relationships that ended in which no real liking or respect ever existed.

 

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Total Commitment for Happy Relationship by Motivational Speaker in West Bengal Kolkata Asansol Siliguri

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Total Commitment requires a heartfelt determination to make the relationship successful. If the two persons are compatible in their basic values and attitudes and are temperamentally balanced, it is much easier for them to make a lifelong commitment. A total commitment means that neither party ever considers or discusses the possibility of separating, breaking up or divorcing. Making a total commitment requires that you burn your physical and emotional bridges and refuse to consider any other option except making this relationship successful.

                Many people avoid making a total commitment to a relationship, even marriage, because they have been hurt in previous relationships. They feel that if they keep their options open, they will always have an emotional escape route. This lack of commitment, however, leads almost invariably to creating the exact situation that the individual fears. The relationship gradually declines as one or both parties continue to hold back and to think of separation as the solution to the problems that inevitably arise between two people.

                “Love is the total commitment to the full development of the potential of  the other.”

When you truly love another person, you want that person to fullfill his or her full potential, and to become everything that he or she is capable of becoming. If one or the other has the slightest hesitation in creating or supporting every opportunity for his or her mate to grow and develop, what you have might be a relationship, but it is probably not real love.

                A wonderful thing about human beings is that we are free emotionally only when we have given up all other options and committed ourselves whole-heartedly to one other person. It is only then that we are capable of developing the high-quality relationships that we need to complete our evolution as human beings.

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Rule for Success in Relationships – Opposite Attract By Motivational Speaker in Uttar Pradesh, Lucknow, Kanpur, Ghaziabad,Agra, Varanasi

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For getting Success in Relationships we should keep in mind that “Opposites Attract”, but only in temperament. Nature always demand balance and harmony. And balance is most necessary in the temperament of two people who have come together as one.

                There is a simple test of compatibility you can apply to your intimate relationships. It is called the conversation test. In a relationship in which you are temperamentally compatible with another person, there will be an easy retreat and flow of conversation. Each person will be able to talk as much as he or she needs to talk, and each person will have the opportunity to listen as much as he or she needs to listen. This balance is very important. Each person has a certain amount of talking that he or she must do to feel healthy and whole. If people do not get the opportunity to do all of their talking with the person with whom they are involved, they will seek to fulfil their communication need somewhere else. Almost all affairs in marriages begin as the result of a need to communicate more fully with another human being.

                When people are temperamentally balanced, 90% of the time they spend together will be filled with easy conversation, going back and forth. The other 10% of the time will be filled with comfortable silences. However, if one person needs to talk 70% of the time and listen only 20% of the time, and then other person also needs to talk 70% of the time and listen only 20% of the time, there will be a clash over what is called air time. They will be continually struggling over who is going to get to talk the most, who is going to fulfil his or her needs at the expense of the other.

                In this type of relationship, there will be one person who loves more and one person who loves less always , the person who loves more will keep quiet and given to allow the person who loves less to do all the talking her or she want to do. The person who loves less controls the relationship.

                However, this is only a temporary solution. It inevitably leads to feelings of frustration and unhappiness on the part of the person who loves more, and who is not getting an opportunity to express himself or herself fully enough. Eventually these curbs feelings erupt in health problems or harmful behaviour.

                Another example of incompatibility is when both the parties only need to talk 30% of the time and comfortable listening 60% or 70% of the time. In this case, you would have 40% of the time the couple is together filled with uncomfortable silences. The two people would sit there with very little to say, feeling uncomfortable but not knowing how to break the silence. This too is an example of temperamental incompatibility.

                The conversation test can be applied to your relationships with any of your friends, on any level and of either sex. Your very best friends are those with whom you have easy conversations and easy silences. These are the ones with whom you are most compatible. But it is most important that you be conversationally compatible with your mate or your spouse if you want to be happy in your relationship.

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Intimacy and Growth Go Hand in Hand by Motivational Speaker in Uttarakhand, Dehradun, Haridwar

Intimacy and Growth

One of the purposes of marriage and intimate relationships is to give you the opportunity to evolve and grow to your full capacity. In a fully trusting relationship, you feel free to tell the other person things you have done in the past and what you are thinking and feeling in the present. In sharing yourself honestly, you develop a deeper understanding of your own humanity. You become more tolerant, more accepting and more compassionate toward the human weaknesses of other people.

Much of what we do in life we do either to get love or to compensate for the lack of love. Everyone needs to be loved and accepted unconditionally by at least one other person. It is only when your need for this form of emotional security has been satisfied that you feel free to turn your mind and heart to accomplishing what is possible for you in your external life. Love is like money. If you have an ample supply, you don’t think about it very much. But if your supply is cut off for any period of time, you think about something else.

The cruellest punishment inflicted on prisoners is locking them away from all other human beings – putting them in solitary confinement. Depriving a person of human contact, of human interaction the worst thing that can be done to him or her.

Your highest aspiration should be to evolve and develop into the kind of person who attract an ideal loving relationship into your life. This relationship makes it possible for you to enjoy the happiness and joy for which you are created.

 

 

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Rule for Successful Relationships – “Similarities Attract” by Motivational Speaker in Tripura, Agartala, Amarpur

Similarities Attract

You will always be the happiest and the most agreed with another person whose interests, tastes and values are similar to yours.  The Law of Attraction outlines that you will be attracted to a person whose attitudes and beliefs are in harmony with your own.

(A)The first area in which similarities are necessary is marriages and relationships is in attitudes toward money – how it is earned, how it is saved and how it is spent.

(B) The second area is attitudes regarding children – whether to have them, how many, and how to raise them.

(C) The third is attitudes toward sex.

(D) The fourth is religion

(E) The fifth is attitudes toward political and social issues.

Attitudes toward people, social activities and how to spend leisure time are also important measures of compatibility. Similarities attract in spiritual areas as well, and this area can sometimes be more important than any other.

                In each case, you will be most happy and most compatible with a person whose fundamental beliefs and values in these areas are most similar to your own. Most unhappiness and disagreements in marriages and relationships come down to fundamental disagreements about these basic issues of life.

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Self-esteem for making Good Relations by Motivational Speaker in Telangana Hyderabad Warangal

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Your self-esteem means how much you like and respect yourself, determines your personality and your level of happiness. High self-confidence leads to high performance and success in every area of your life, while low self-confidence leads and accompanies most failure and frustration.

The first part of self-esteem is the purely emotional component, the way you feel about yourself, separate and apart from anyone or anything else.

 The second part of your self-esteem is determined by your superficial level of capability in what you do. It is how well you feel you perform in the important areas of your life. This is called performance based self-esteem, and it is an essential element of your personality. When you feel that you are good at what you do, that you perform well, you enjoy high self-esteem in that area. This feeling strengthens the other component of self-esteem, your sense of personal value. If you do well, you feel good- if you feel good, you do well. Each is dependent on the other.

                Because your relationships are so central to your entire life, for you to enjoy continued feelings of self-esteem, you must know in your heart that you are capable of entering into and maintaining a positive, healthy and constructive loving relationship with another person. Feeling inferior or incompetent in your relationships undermines your self-esteem and self-confidence.

Everything you do that enables you to get along better with the important people in your life improves your self-esteem. Effectiveness with others makes you feel more competent and complete and frees you to more readily become more effective in the other areas of your life.

                There is a direct relationship between the quality of your relationships and your level of self-esteem and self-acceptance. You can only like yourself to the degree to which you fully accept yourself, and how much you like yourself is largely determined by how much you feel you are accepted by other people.

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How to Make Good Personal Relations by Motivational Speaker in Haryana, Faridabad, Gurugram

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One of the characteristics of the fully mature person is that he or she has the ability to enter into long-term, intimate relationships and maintain those relationships for long periods of time. Men and women with the healthiest personalities, those who are the most together as human beings, are those who seem to have the greatest capacity for these loving relationships. The choice of a mate, and the quality of your home and family life, determines your success as a human being as much as or more than any other factor. Your relationships are a direct expression of the person you really are.  Your outer world of relationships will correspond exactly to your inner world of thought and feeling.

 If your inner world is positive and loving, your outer world of relationships will be happy and satisfying.

“No success in public life can compensate for failure in the home.” Your personal relationships should take precedence over everything else. As you grow and become a better person, your relationships should grow and improves as well, and in the same proportion.

As you become more positive, optimistic and loving, you will naturally attract into your life more positive, optimistic and loving people.

You get out of your marriage or your romance exactly what you put into it. The more of yourself that you put into a relationship, the more love, satisfaction and joy you will get out of it.

Men and women are born with complimentary qualities and characteristics. Each one needs the other to fulfil his or her human destiny.

Happy relationships go hand in hand with peace of mind, long life, health, happiness and abundance.

 

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How to Become Popular and Likeable by Motivational Speaker in Tamil Nadu Chennai Coimbatore Madurai

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  1. Get out of Yourself and Get into the Lives and Concerns of Others

Become genuinely interested in others. Ask them questions and listen to them. Think of ways that you can help them. Practice the Law of Sowing and Reaping. Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you.

2. Develop Your Unique Talents

Get busy on yourself and your goals. Develop your unique talents. Get good at what you do. The better you do the things that are important to you, the more you like yourself. And the more you like and respect yourself, the more comfortable and effective you are with others. Nothing succeeds like success.

Visualise, affirm and act the part. Work on yourself as if your future depends upon it, because it does. You can become one of the most positive and effective people in your world, and you will when you put these ideas to work in all your relationships.

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Excellent Tips for the Art of Conversation and Social Interactions by Motivational Speaker in Sikkim Gangtok Pelling

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Tips for Good Conversation

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Tips for Good Conversation

By Motivational Speaker in Rajasthan Jaipur Jodhpur Kota Bikaner Ajmer Udaipur

Tips for Good Conversation which will help you to be a better conversationalist in any work or social situation –

  1.             Cue the Subject to the Listener-

The first rule of good conversation is to cue the subject to your listener. Talk to people about subjects that interest them. Any subjects, including the subjects that used to be taboo in conversation, are okay if they are of interest to the person you are speaking with.But if you see that you are getting no response to a particular subject, back off quickly and talk about something else.

One of the best ways to open a conversation is simply to ask the person, “What sort of work do you do?”

            Most people consider their personal career path to be one of the most fascinating stories ever told. Whenever the speaker stops, you can keep the conversation or momentum going by asking, and then what did they do?” Asking people, ‘How did you get into that business, anyway?” and then what did you do?” will enable you to keep a conversation going almost indefinitely.

  1.             The second rule for Good Conversation is to Take Your Turn

            If ever you find that you have talked for  3 minutes straight, without question or comment from your listeners, you can pretty sure that you are talking on a subject of interest only to yourself. We all make this mistake. Remember, if other people are not contributing, what you are doing is making a speech, not holding a conversation.

            Taking your turn also means not interrupting when people are talking. And when you are interrupted, and when someone else joins the group, the most polite thing to do is also the hardest; shut up. Don’t go back and finish a story unless you are asked to do so.

            Each person has an opportunity both to speak and to listen. If either party is deprived of the opportunity to speak, the conversation becomes one-sided and the person talking will be thought of as a bore.

III.            The third rule for Good Conversation is to Think Before You Speak-

            Avoid saying anything that would make someone uncomfortable, unhappy or self-conscious. Be tactful and aware of the feelings and sensitivities of the others.

For good conversation, respect other people’s privacy and reserve a little privacy for yourself. Some people get into the habit of interviewing other people, and asking them a lot of questions whose answers are really none of their business. Keep your questions general and impersonal and give the other person the opportunity to decide whether or not her or she wants to open up to you.

  1.  Finally to be an Excellent Conversationalist, Be Natural-

            Be yourself. Let your personality flow. Only say what you feel comfortable saying. If for any reason, something inside you tells you not to speak up, listen to your inner voice. Speak easily and spontaneously, without trying to impress or be impresses by anyone. Just say what comes naturally to your mind.

            The very best conversationalists and the most enjoyable people to be around are those who are relaxed, positive and complete natural.

 Shikhar Prajapati

(Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer)

 

 

Shikhar Prajapati is  India’s favourite Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer who has successfully trained more than 7 lakh people since 2001.

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